About the show

Marriage. Parenthood. Relationships. Family. All parts of day-to-day life, all things easily failed. The hosts of Why Did We Ever Meet, Ashley & Wes Allen, know these things and are willing to share their failures with you.
Why Did We Ever Meet gives you a candid look into "The Allen Club", a family you may already be familiar with due to their involvement in independent film, podcasts, etc. Join them each week (with plenty of interruptions by kids & pets) to find out what blew up in the Allen House & laugh along with them...and at their expense!

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  • Dad's Grumpy

    February 8th, 2023  |  1 hr 9 mins
    allen club, episode 151, family, why did we ever meet
  • Scrump Returns!

    February 1st, 2023  |  1 hr 28 mins
    allen club, episode 150, family, why did we ever meet

    Host of the PWT Cast, Scrump, returns. We talk about the reality of mental health, heartbreak, and healing. Good stuff!

  • Metallica Tickets

    January 25th, 2023  |  1 hr 12 mins
    episode 149, family, why did we ever meet

    Everyone makes an appearance. Even grandma. Enjoy this buffet of stories.

  • Roxie Returns!

    January 18th, 2023  |  35 mins 26 secs
    episode 148, family, why did we ever meet

    Roxie's back & we're talking about horror movies, cute core, The Mandela Catalogue, and why male wrestling fans suck. Good quick hitter for your Wednesday from everyone's favorite lil' goth.

  • Have You Seen The Menu?

    January 11th, 2023  |  1 hr 10 mins
    episode 147, family, why did we ever meet

    Cash has his driver's license. The Menu can cause anxiety attacks if you're high. Lots of pearls of wisdom to be had as well...

  • 2023

    January 4th, 2023  |  1 hr 57 secs
    episode 146, family, why did we ever meet

    We're back.

  • The Tired Queef

    December 14th, 2022  |  38 mins 26 secs
    episode 145, family, why did we ever meet

    Things have been crazy. Listen in and find out.

  • Holidazed & Confused

    November 30th, 2022  |  1 hr 14 mins
    episode 144, family, why did we ever meet

    Thanksgiving is gone, the other one is coming. Let's do this.

  • Drew Kistler (The Draft Pod, PWT Cast, Jabroni U Network)

    November 23rd, 2022  |  2 hrs 9 mins
    episode 143, family, why did we ever meet

    A lifelong friendship, inside jokes...it's all here. Have fun & have a safe holiday!

  • The One Where We Spoil Don't Worry Darling

    November 16th, 2022  |  1 hr 16 mins
    episode 142, family, why did we ever meet

    This episode ends up mostly occupied by our feelings on the movie Don't Worry Darling. We also go through the AEW Full Gear card. NOTE: If you're worried about having the movie spoiled for you, from 17:35-40:52 you can skip ahead. Plenty more show after that!

  • Tomorrow Is Another Day

    November 9th, 2022  |  1 hr 20 mins
    episode 141, family, why did we ever meet

    We're doing this life together and that's how we get by. Let's talk about it.

  • Cash Destroys The Jabroni U Network

    November 2nd, 2022  |  50 mins 27 secs
    episode 140, family, why did we ever meet

    We're sorry in advance. Cash was not busy tonight & that turned out to be a bad thing. He basically takes over the show and steers into c*m talk. As he does on every podcast that dares let him on. So, we're sorry. We love you. Please don't leave.

  • Cash, One Year Later...

    October 26th, 2022  |  1 hr 1 min
    episode 139, family, why did we ever meet

    TW: Conversation regarding suicide, depression
    A year removed, Cash talks about life after hospitlization. This conversation may be shocking or offensive at moments, but it's a beautiful story that we're grateful he can tell.

  • Liquid Death Should Sponsor Us

    October 19th, 2022  |  1 hr 13 mins
    episode 138, family, why did we ever meet

    THIS IS A VERY SPOILER HEAVY EPISODE SO BE WARNED BEFORE LISTENING. We talk about Halloween Ends, Hellraiser, MEN, and more. We're hanging on...thanks for hanging with us.

  • Q Badass OnOn

    October 5th, 2022  |  52 mins 14 secs
    episode 137, family, why did we ever meet

    Total chaos. That's all you're getting on this one. NSFW total chaos.

  • I Like Your Salad

    September 30th, 2022  |  56 mins 41 secs
    episode 136, family, why did we ever meet

    Homecoming Rd. 1 for Cash, Elvis, farts, salads, weird kids. It's all here.